Retirement:
Don't Lose Your Sense of Purpose
What
Will Retirement Be Like?
"It
will be great to do what I want when I want."
"Whew,
no more office politics to deal with!"
"At
last, the government will be paying me for a change."
"I'm
finally F-R-E-E-E!!"
These
statements reflect some of the positive things about retirement
that almost everyone looks forward to. Unless it's due to
illness, the reason most retirees leave their jobs is because
they want to, not because they're pushed out. So for most,
that last day on the job is a joyful one filled with an invigorating
sense of personal freedom.
But many
retirees are not prepared for another feeling that often follows
that last day of work: a profound sense of loss.
You've
Got Company
A study sponsored by Civic Ventures, Temple University, and
the Center for Intergenerational Learning surveyed retired
people of all economic levels, and found that the majority
had one thing in common: They felt lonely. It wasn't for lack
of friends, family and active social lives. Instead, it was
a loneliness for the kinds of relationships they had established
during their working years. Almost all workers are part of
teams of some kind, and those teams have daily problems to
solve, solutions to work out, new ideas to introduce.
An
architect who spent her life drawing plans had an office full
of people who understood her work and appreciated her creative
new ideas. A science teacher of many years had near-celebrity
status among his peers and his students, who always seemed
to be talking about the cool things they were learning in
his class. The manager of quality-control at an auto-assembly
plant felt pride in his team and got a special thrill each
fall when the new models came out and he saw them on the road.
At retirement,
they may all have one thing in common: loss of a sense of
purpose. The architect's purpose was to create satisfying
designs, the teacher's to stimulate young minds, the quality-control
manager's to assure that his company's products measured up
to top standards. What will replace the job satisfactions
that were so much a part of their identities?
These
days, with rumblings that social security might not last and
with health care costs escalating alarmingly, many retirees
find that instead of feeling the total freedom they dreamed
about, they are haunted by worries about whether they have
enough money saved to actually enjoy their retired years.
The fact that people are living so much longer than they did
a decade ago should seem like good news-but the prospect of
how to finance all those extra years is troublesome to many
people when they leave the workforce.
It's
a fact that retirement can be an unsettling time. But it doesn't
have to be.
Many
people have a different view of retirement. One respondent
in the study mentioned above said: "I like to think
of myself as retiring TO something as opposed to retiring
FROM something."
In other
words, retirement shouldn't be a stopping point, but a
continuation of the journey through life. Why toss all
the experience you've gained through years of working? You're
one of the "wise ones" now. There are people out
there who value you.
A 2005
comprehensive study released by AARP and Towers Perrin, a
human resources consulting firm, showed that many employers
are beginning to recognize the value of older workers. It's
that old-fashioned work ethic-you know, expecting to actually
show up on time and give a fair day's work for a fair day's
wage. In its September, 2006, Bulletin, AARP honored 50 US
employers who are "friendly" to older workers.
But
doesn't going back to work defeat the whole idea of being
retired? Isn't it supposed to be time to stop showing up for
work when someone else says you should? You wanted freedom,
remember? Do you have to give that up to regain that sense
of purpose?
Absolutely
not.
Thousands
of people of all ages are making money in home businesses
that allow them to be their own bosses and retain the
exhilaration of the freedom to run their own lives. At the
same time, they're able to generate extra income to bulk up
the nest egg and provide substantially more financial security
for the 20, 30 or more years to come. Freedom from financial
worry is just as important as freedom from job demands if
you're going to enjoy the rest of your life. And as a home-based
entrepreneur, you can still enjoy all the dreams you planned.
As long as you have a computer and a phone, you can run your
"home" business from anywhere you call home-including
your vacation cottage, RV, or even your favorite beach.
If you're
retired, or soon will be, now is the time to get started.
You already have the skills you need. With a little extra
help from the experts, you can fine-tune them and start right
away to put a sense of purpose back in your life.
Just
fill out the form below for additional information on a home
based business that you can operate that will fulfill your
needs.